So, you want
to become an alpha, this is why you are reading this blog. If your answer is
yes, then get ready to change yourself, to leave your comfort zone and enter
action mode. All the things written here are based on behavioural psychology
and the purpose of these things is to bring positive changes in your
personality.
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Let me
inform you in advance, all the methods mentioned here are best only when you
bring them in daily routine. If you just want to change yourself by reading,
please do not waste your time. If you have decided to read then use the method
given. So, we are talking about alpha. What is alpha?
According to
Cambridge dictionary,"Alpha used to describe someone who is strong and
powerful and who likes to be in charge of other". The tasks that need to be done
to become alpha will be told to you one by one. In this blog we will talk about
self-respect. Self-esteem in alpha is as important as wings for a bird to fly.
But it is often seen that the human soul is not able to distinguish between
honour and pride and instead of self-respect, the person starts boasting and
this boasts has a negative effect on his personality. Let me tell you a
story……..
In a dense
forest there lived a lion. He thought he had more strength than all the other
animals in the forest. As he often boasted about his strength, the other
animals stayed away from him. Even the other lions did not mix him since they
thought he was proud.
As the lion
was wandering through the jungle one day, he saw a tiger and stopped him.
“Who is
stronger than you?” the lion demanded.
“You, O
lion”, replied the tiger.
Satisfied,
the lion walked on, until he met a huge fierce leopard.
“Who is
fiercer than a leopard?” asked the lion.
Since the
leopard had heard about this lion, he wanted to ignore him. As he could not, he
murmured, “You, Sir”, and walked off.
The lion
felt even happier than he had felt with the tiger’s reply and decided to return
to his den. Just then he spotted a huge elephant. He marched up to him and
asked the same question.
While the
lion was waiting for an answer, the elephant looked him up and down. Without
answering, he picked up the lion in his trunk, swung him in the air and put him
down with a thud.
“Look,” said
the lion, “there is no need to get mad just because you don’t know the answer.”
It is
learned from this story that you should not boast on what you have and the best
lesson that this story gives, it is, that no matter how intelligent you are,
powerful, fully skilled in some work, one day someone will beat you. You should
not be disappointed at that time. Do not let your self-respect fall. But do
what the lion did. Keep in mind that you can tackle yourself by working hard,
but comparing yourself with others, you will find yourself inferior or
superior. In such a situation, your self-esteem will either decreases or
increases. You have to avoid such situation and keep yourself working
continuously. These were preliminary things, in next blog we will discuss the
methods by which you will assess yourself.
Thank you
for reading and keep waiting for the next blog. Read Road to Success to energize your thought. Give reasonable comment and
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